I've always been under the impression that it would be such a bummer to be in a peaceful place like Hawaii or the tropics and be stressed about catching waves.
One of the reasons we're here that we exist at all is that Earth cosmically speaking is in a relatively peaceful place: orbiting our Sun in a near perfect circle.
The basketball court for me during a game is the most peaceful place I can imagine. On the basketball court I worry about nothing. When I'm out there no one can bother me...
In order to forgive an offender we have first to forgive ourselves then we can forgive them.In this way we are nothelpless victims anymore we regain our power acting from our peaceful placeof power.